The Sunday Night Cheat Sheet: Contract vs. CallingContracts get signed. Callings get answered.Sunday night. And you’ve got that familiar knot in your stomach. You’re staring down another week, wondering why success feels so crappy. Here’s why: You’re confusing your Job with your Work. You’re dreading tomorrow because you’ve outsourced your sense of purpose to an employer who literally cannot provide it. Let’s fix that before you log in. The Sunday Night Cheat SheetYour Job:
Your Work:
The 3-Question AuditBefore starting your work week, ask yourself:
Your job is a contract. Your work is a calling. You can negotiate the contract, but not the calling. The ShiftWhen you separate Job from Work, the pressure comes off. Your job doesn’t have to be your calling. It can be the funding mechanism for your actual Work—the platform that buys you time and space to do what matters. Stop waiting for permission from your employer to care about what you’re dying to do; they won’t. They only care about how you are serving their agenda, not yours. Walk into tomorrow knowing the difference. Quotation I’ve Been Pondering“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” — Carl Jung Journal PromptWhat would change this week if I stopped needing my job to be meaningful—and started building meaning outside of it?
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